Izihloko eziphambili: Intwana yefilosofi.
Intwana yefilosofi.
Sukucinga ukuba ukumodareyitha kuhlala kulula, kuba abantu oya kusebenzisana nabo abalulanga. Nantsi eminye imizekelo yeemeko ezinzima onokuthi udibane nazo, kunye neengcebiso zokujongana ngempumelelo nazo.
Awunako ukuzisa ubulungisa.
- Awazi ukuba kutheni abantu ababini bexambulisana. Mhlawumbi kukho into eyenzekayo ngaphambili. Unokugweba kuphela oko ubonayo, kwaye usebenzise imigaqo. Ungazisa ucwangco, kodwa awukwazi ukuzisa ubulungisa.
- Masenze umzekelo: UAlfred webe into kaJenny, ebomini bokwenene (ngabamelwane). Ujonge iqonga, ubone uJenny ethuka uAlfred. Uyamvimba uJenny. Yayiyinto elungileyo leyo, kuba ukuthuka akuvumelekanga. Kodwa awusazi isizathu sokuba abantu baxambulisane. Awusebenzisanga ubulungisa.
- Nanku omnye umzekelo: UJenny wayethuka uAlfred kumyalezo wabucala. Ngoku ujonga kwigumbi lokuncokola likawonke wonke, kwaye ubona uAlfred egrogrisa uJenny. Uthumela isilumkiso kuAlfred. Wenza into elungileyo kwakhona, kuba ukoyikisa akuvumelekanga. Kodwa ubungayazi imvelaphi yale meko. Ayilunganga le uyenzileyo. Inyala kuwe.
- Wenza into ekufuneka uyenzile, ngokusekelwe kwinto oyaziyo. Kodwa yivume: Awazi kakhulu. Ke kufuneka uhlale uthozamile, kwaye uhlale ukhumbula ukuba ucwangco yinto elungileyo, kodwa ayisiyobulungisa...
Musa ukubacaphukisa abantu.
- Kuphephe ukuthetha nabantu xa ubamodareyitha. Kuya kubacaphukisa. Bekuya kufana nokubaxelela: “Mna ndingaphezu kwenu.”
- Xa abantu becaphuka, bacaphuka ngokwenene. Usenokuzisola ngokubenza babe nomsindo kwasekuqaleni. Mhlawumbi baya kuhlasela iwebhusayithi. Mhlawumbi baya kufumana ubuni bakho bokwenyani kwaye bakuphathe njengotshaba. Kufuneka ukuphephe oku.
- Ziphephe iingxabano. Endaweni yoko, sebenzisa amaqhosha enkqubo. Sebenzisa amaqhosha ukuthumela isilumkiso, okanye i-bannishment. Kwaye ungathethi nto.
- Abantu baya kuncipha umsindo: kuba bengazi ukuba ngubani owenze le nto. Ayinakuze ibe yeyomntu.
- Abantu baya kuba nomsindo omncinci: kuba baya kuziva benegunya eliphakamileyo. Oku kwamkeleke ngakumbi kunegunya lomntu.
- Abantu banepsychology emangalisayo. Funda ukucinga ngendlela abacinga ngayo. Abantu zizidalwa ezithandekayo neziyingozi. Uluntu luxakile kwaye sizidalwa ezimangalisayo...
Dala indawo yakho eyonwabileyo.
- Xa usenza imisebenzi yokumodareyitha ngokuchanekileyo, abantu baya konwaba ngakumbi kumncedisi wakho. Iseva yakho ikwaluluntu lwakho. Uya konwaba ngakumbi.
- Kuya kuba mbalwa ukulwa, iintlungu ziyancipha, intiyo iyancipha. Abantu baya kwenza abahlobo abaninzi, yaye ngoko nawe uya kwenza abahlobo abangakumbi.
- Xa indawo intle, kungenxa yokuba kukho umntu oyenza ibe ntle. Izinto ezimnandi azizenzekeli. Kodwa ungasiguqula isiphithiphithi sibe ngolungelelwano...
Umoya womthetho.
- Umthetho awugqibelelanga. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukongeza kangakanani izichasiselo, unokuhlala ufumana into engabandakanywanga ngumthetho.
- Ngenxa yokuba umthetho ungagqibelelanga, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka wenze izinto ezichasene nomthetho. Yimpatho-mbi, kuba umthetho ufanele ukulandelwa. Ngaphandle kwaxa kufuneka ingalandelwa. Kodwa njani ukwenza isigqibo?
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- Ithiyori: Umthetho awunakuze ugqibelele.
- Ubungqina: Ndiqwalasela i-edge case, kumda womthetho, kwaye ngoko umthetho awukwazi ukwenza isigqibo sokuba wenzeni. Kwaye nokuba nditshintshe umthetho, ukuba ndiwuphathe ngokuchanekileyo eli tyala, ndisenako ukuqwalasela ityala elincinane, kumda omtsha womthetho. Kwaye kwakhona, umthetho awukwazi ukwenza isigqibo malunga nokuba wenzeni.
- Umzekelo: Ndiyimodareyitha ye-server "China". Ndindwendwela iseva "San Fransico". Ndikwi-chat room, kukho umntu othukayo nohlukumeza intombazana emsulwa eneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala. Umgaqo uthi: "Musa ukusebenzisa amandla akho okumodareyitha ngaphandle komncedisi wakho". Kodwa kusezinzulwini zobusuku, kwaye ndim ndedwa imodareyitha evukileyo. Ngaba ndiyayiyeka le ntombazana ilizana notshaba lwayo; okanye kufuneka ndenze ngaphandle kulo mthetho? Sisigqibo sakho ukwenza.
- Ewe kukho imithetho, kodwa asizorobhothi. Sifuna uqeqesho, kodwa sinengqondo. Sebenzisa isigwebo sakho kuyo yonke imeko. Kukho umbhalo womthetho, ekufuneka ulandelwe kwiimeko ezininzi. Kodwa kukwakho “umoya womthetho”.
- Qonda imigaqo, kwaye uyilandele. Qonda ukuba kutheni le migaqo ikhona, kwaye uyigobe xa iyimfuneko, kodwa hayi kakhulu...
Uxolelo kunye nemvisiswano.
- Ngamanye amaxesha ungangquzulana nenye imodareyitha. Ezi zinto zenzeka ngenxa yokuba singabantu. Isenokuba yingxabano yobuqu, okanye ukungavisisani malunga nesigqibo omele usithathe.
- Zama ukuba nembeko, kwaye ube nobubele omnye komnye. Zama ukuthethathethana, kwaye uzame ukuba yimpucuko.
- Ukuba umntu wenze impazamo, mxolele. Kuba nawe uya kuzenza iimpazamo.
- U-Sun Tzu uthe: "Xa ungqonge umkhosi, yiyeke indlela ephumayo ikhululekile. Musa ukulucinezela kakhulu utshaba oluphelelwe lithemba."
- UYesu Kristu wathi: “Ongenasono kuni makabe ngowokuqala ukumgibisela ngelitye.
- UNelson Mandela uthe: “Inzondo ifana nokusela ityhefu emva koko ube nethemba lokuba iya kubulala iintshaba zakho.
- Kwaye wena... Uthini?
Yiba ngomnye.
- Umntu uziphethe kakubi. Ngokwembono yakho, ayilunganga, kwaye kufuneka iyekwe.
- Khawucinge ukuba wazalelwa kwindawo enye kunomnye umntu, ukuba uzalelwe kwintsapho yakhe, nabazali bakhe, abazalwana bakhe, oodade wabo. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ubunamava akhe obomi, endaweni kowakho. Khawube nomfanekiso wakho uneentsilelo zakhe, izifo zakhe, cinga ukuba ulambile. Kwaye ekugqibeleni ucinge ukuba wayenobomi bakho. Mhlawumbi imeko yayiza kubuyiselwa umva? Mhlawumbi ubuya kuba uziphatha kakubi, kwaye uya kukugweba. Ubomi buyisigqibo.
- Masingazibaxi izinto: Hayi, i-relativism ayinakuba sisingxengxezo sayo yonke into. Kodwa ewe, i-relativism inokuba sisingxengxezo sayo nantoni na.
- Into inokuba yinyani kwaye ibubuxoki ngaxeshanye. Inyani isemehlweni obonayo...
Okungaphantsi kuninzi.
- Xa abantu bephantsi kolawulo, bachitha ixesha elincinane belwela into abayifunayo, kuba sele beyazi into abanokuyenza okanye abangayiyo. Yaye ngoko banexesha elingakumbi namandla okwenza oko bakufunayo, ngoko banenkululeko engakumbi.
- Xa abantu benenkululeko eninzi, abambalwa kubo baya kuyisebenzisa kakubi inkululeko yabo, baze babe inkululeko yabanye abantu. Kwaye ke, uninzi luya kuba nenkululeko encinci.
- Xa abantu benenkululeko encinane, baba nenkululeko engakumbi...